Mexico City’s hottest tacos and gay parties

*Jean Paul Zapata published this piece on Gay Star News on March 4, 2014.

Mexico City's hottest tacos and gay partiesDon’t let the name fool you. Mexico’s Anal Magazine is an intellectual publication and has a highbrow following.

‘With a unique design, this magazine is dedicated to spread any kind of cultural expression of erotic nature or general interest to men who are not afraid to show their fascination for other men.’

The magazine’s logo is clever and well conceived; The content (no doubt provocative) extends to include literature, fashion and interviews; The publication has quickly established itself as a social force within the city’s LGBTI community.

Anal also puts on One Hell of A Party, the name given for its signature Halloween bash.
Three-year Mexico City resident and gay activist Enrique Torre Molina credits Anal Magazine with the city’s hottest dance floor. Facebook photos of previous parties corroborate these claims.

Torre Molina works with ‘media, non-profit organizations, companies, schools, and government agencies to promote respect for LGBT people,’ and has his fingers on the pulse of Mexico City’s culture scene.

He writes: ‘When I was in college in Puebla, I used to come to Mexico City about once a month. When I finally moved here three and a half years ago, I already knew my way around and had many friends living here. I especially like that there’s a lot of good theatre, and great people to meet every day. In this sense it’s very similar to New York, my other favorite city, where I lived for a little while. They remind me of each other.’

Here’s Enrique’s list of the best museums, theatres and tourist sights in Mexico City.

Favorite gay bar: Nicho and La Purísima.

Favorite any bar: Lilit.

Favorite dance floor: Anal Magazine’s Halloween party.

Favorite tourist sight: The view of the volcanoes when flying over Mexico City.

Mexico City's hottest tacos and gay parties2Favorite meal: Tacos at El Parnita and mascarpone cheesecake at Delirio.

Favorite getaway: Merida, Oaxaca, San Cristobal de las Casas.

Favorite breakfast: Eggs at El Péndulo and French toast at Carrez.

Favorite park: Chapultepec, around the Tamayo Museum.

Favorite café: El Péndulo.

Favorite hotel: St Regis.

Favorite festival: Festival Mix, which is the oldest LGBT film festival in Latin America.

Favorite bike ride: I don’t bike.

Favorite long walk: Reforma avenue and shopping in colonia Roma.

Mexico City's hottest tacos and gay parties3Favorite photo-op: My building’s rooftop terrace, and anywhere with photographer Oscar Morales.

Favorite museum: Museo Memoria y Tolerancia and Museo Franz Mayer.

Favorite beach: Puerto Escondido in Oaxaca.

Mexico City's hottest tacos and gay parties4Favorite place for a first date: Cineteca Nacional or the theatre.

Favorite shopping street: Colima street in colonia Roma and H&M in Santa Fe.

Favorite food market: Mercado de Medellin in colonia Roma.

Favorite art gallery: I’m not a gallery person, but I love the photo exhibits they do on the fences of Bosque de Chapultepec along Reforma avenue.

Favorite view: From the Chapultepec Castle terrace.

Favorite public art: Sculptures outside Bellas Artes.

Favorite thing in the city that defies categorization: Theatre at the Santa Martha Acatitla prison.

Favorite theatre space: Foro Shakespeare and Teatro Helenico.

Favorite gay media outlet: Betún magazine.

Favorite hidden treasure: It used to be Tia Maria, a gay piano bar in my neighborhood, which closed last year. I have yet to find my new favorite hidden treasure.

To get in touch with Enrique, visit his website or follow him on Twitter @etorremolina.

Mexico City's hottest tacos and gay parties5

Don’t let the name fool you. Mexico’s Anal Magazine is an intellectual publication and has a highbrow following.

‘With a unique design, this magazine is dedicated to spread any kind of cultural expression of erotic nature or general interest to men who are not afraid to show their fascination for other men.’

The magazine’s logo is clever and well conceived; The content (no doubt provocative) extends to include literature, fashion and interviews; The publication has quickly established itself as a social force within the city’s LGBTI community.

Anal also puts on One Hell of A Party, the name given for its signature Halloween bash.
Three-year Mexico City resident and gay activist Enrique Torre Molina credits Anal Magazine with the city’s hottest dance floor. Facebook photos of previous parties corroborate these claims.

Torre Molina works with ‘media, non-profit organizations, companies, schools, and government agencies to promote respect for LGBT people,’ and has his fingers on the pulse of Mexico City’s culture scene.

He writes: ‘When I was in college in Puebla, I used to come to Mexico City about once a month. When I finally moved here three and a half years ago, I already knew my way around and had many friends living here. I especially like that there’s a lot of good theatre, and great people to meet every day. In this sense it’s very similar to New York, my other favorite city, where I lived for a little while. They remind me of each other.’

Here’s Enrique’s list of the best museums, theatres and tourist sights in Mexico City.

Favorite gay bar: Nicho and La Purísima.

Favorite any bar: Lilit.

Favorite dance floor: Anal Magazine’s Halloween party.

Favorite tourist sight: The view of the volcanoes when flying over Mexico City.

– See more at: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/mexico-citys-hottest-tacos-and-gay-parties040314#sthash.NWkkZshF.dpuf

Don’t let the name fool you. Mexico’s Anal Magazine is an intellectual publication and has a highbrow following.

‘With a unique design, this magazine is dedicated to spread any kind of cultural expression of erotic nature or general interest to men who are not afraid to show their fascination for other men.’

The magazine’s logo is clever and well conceived; The content (no doubt provocative) extends to include literature, fashion and interviews; The publication has quickly established itself as a social force within the city’s LGBTI community.

Anal also puts on One Hell of A Party, the name given for its signature Halloween bash.
Three-year Mexico City resident and gay activist Enrique Torre Molina credits Anal Magazine with the city’s hottest dance floor. Facebook photos of previous parties corroborate these claims.

Torre Molina works with ‘media, non-profit organizations, companies, schools, and government agencies to promote respect for LGBT people,’ and has his fingers on the pulse of Mexico City’s culture scene.

He writes: ‘When I was in college in Puebla, I used to come to Mexico City about once a month. When I finally moved here three and a half years ago, I already knew my way around and had many friends living here. I especially like that there’s a lot of good theatre, and great people to meet every day. In this sense it’s very similar to New York, my other favorite city, where I lived for a little while. They remind me of each other.’

Here’s Enrique’s list of the best museums, theatres and tourist sights in Mexico City.

Favorite gay bar: Nicho and La Purísima.

Favorite any bar: Lilit.

Favorite dance floor: Anal Magazine’s Halloween party.

Favorite tourist sight: The view of the volcanoes when flying over Mexico City.

– See more at: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/mexico-citys-hottest-tacos-and-gay-parties040314#sthash.NWkkZshF.dpuf


The honest art of Raghava KK

Raghava KK is an emerging, successful artist from India who began his career as a cartoonist in Bangalore and now lives in Nuevallorrrr. He has had a very interesting life, and his fascinating work is a reflection of that, exploring subjects like gender & sexuality, politics, coming out, death, pain, joy, identity… An authentic magic carpet ride, as he called it at TED 2010:

I first read about him in a post on Gay Persons of Color where they talked about a children’s iPad app he created to depict different kinds of families, including homoparental ones. This made me want to contact him, and Raghava was kind enough to answer the following questions. Enjoy!

Tell me about your work as an artist.
I have reinvented myself, and in turn my work, several times in the last decade or so. I work in many genres, spanning painting, sculpture, installation, film and performance, but my work is always linked by my challenging opinions on identity, conformity, gender, celebrity, and ceremony.

Why are you an artist?
I use art as a tool of exploration and as an aid in critical thinking.  For me, the process of making art is akin to living a philosophy.

What do you look for, what do you try to show with your work? What do you expect people will see, feel, think, do through it?
In my work, I try and expose oftentimes the simplest of truths, the things that are most obvious to me, in the most honest manner possible. My work is not pedagogical by nature. Simply by creating honest art, I hope to trigger meaningful thought, reaction, feedback, etc.

What about Pop-it? What point are you trying to make?
The iPad app was created after my move to New York. At first, I felt a strange sense of the unfamiliar in most of the children’s books that I bought for my children here. This led to a belief that a) children’s books are most often full of propaganda, and b) children’s books serve as subtle manuals on parenting. My first reaction was to counter this with “my propaganda.” However, my wife and I, after a series of back and forth discussion, decided that multiple perspectives introduced at an early stage can lead to empathy and open-mindedness.  This early stage that I’m talking about is not only in children, but also parents in the early stages of parenting. To be able to appreciate multiple perspectives and to be able to put yourself in different people’s shoes (whether you accept their views or not) is the beginning of empathy.

What kind of response has Pop-it received?
It’s interesting you asked that question. The critical/academic community has been extremely encouraging. A stringent book review website, KirkusReviews.com, gave me a Kirkus Star (for books of remarkable merit) and says about the app: “A first-rate mind expander, this app rewards repeat visits and depicts several family constellations with irresistible intimacy and good humor – all the while featuring uncommonly inventive art and software design.” Forbes.com and Mashable.com gave Pop-it fabulous coverage and the TED Conference launched the app at the TED Global Conference. However, I am very saddened by the tremendous effort that a few communities are putting in to mark the app as inappropriate for children, simply because of its tolerance of homosexuality, You can see for yourself the kind of comments that people are making here.

How do you expect Pop-it will impact those who use it?
This app is unique and I believe pushes the envelope in that it has no words and defies the traditional concepts of beauty otherwise found in children’s books. I leave it to the parents to interpret it. In this, it is similar to a series of painting that the parent and child together experience, participate in, and interpret. I know one of the pieces of critical feedback I have received has to do with the lack of a defined storyline and the lack of words. It’s a very conscious decision of mine to avoid both of these in the hope that the words come alive through the interpretation.

What effect do you think art in general has, or you wish it had, in societies?
I really believe that an artist’s journey is pure and honest, even if it is self-indulgent, and that he contributes to this world his unique perspective. I see the artist as the meeting place between science and religion, philosophy and physiology, conscious and unconscious. Therefore, each artist has to be contextualized in his own terms and it is certain that any effort made on these grounds will be invaluable in the lessons taken away. Having said this, I don’t believe that there is a general rule of thumb in the kind of impact art should have in society. It is merely a tool for true critical thinking and self-realization.

I read that your work was present even in your own wedding. Can you tell me about that?
I am very interested in ceremony and identity. My wife and I worked very hard to create an experience that was both celebratory and extremely lavish in creativity (over 100 artists contributed various aspects, including fashion, design, DJing, vegetable carving, etc.) and that at the same time spiritually connected with the past. We adapted the ceremonies to compensate for chauvinistic tendencies. Here’s a mockumentary about the wedding that is fun and crazy.

The idea of starting my own blog was originally triggered by the experience of living in New York City. Why did you move there? What has that experience been like?
There is no place like New York City. I love living here because it is a leveler city. I live the most exaggerated dreams here and at the same time, have the most domesticated, mundane, beautiful, family life in Brooklyn. Over here, I’ve collaborated with some of the greatest artists – I designed t-shirts for Paul Simon and Erykah Badu, worked with Yann Vasnier (the nose), and artists, dancers, etc., while walking my dog and pushing my double-stroller in Park Slope.

More of Raghava can be found on his website, Facebook fan page, and you can follow him on Twitter.